Bereavement, grief and loss

Are you suffering with the pain of a loss? Is grief something you need support with? Counselling for bereavement can help you at a very difficult time.

Have you suffered the loss of a loved one in your life and struggling to deal with the pain?

Sadly, at some point in all of our lives we will have to face the heartache of losing someone, or something, we care deeply about. 

This might be a family member, a friend, a colleague or perhaps a pet and no matter how prepared we thought we would be, we can find ourselves overwhelmed and unable to move forward. 

Sometime's, it can feel as though our grief will always be with us and that we will never be the same again.  Bereavement's, grief and loss change us as people but we can still find joy and happiness in our lives, perhaps with the right help. 

If you feel this way, bereavement counselling may be able to help you.

Kieran Mountney BA (hons), Dip. Couns, Couns Reg MBACP (Accred).

Are you struggling with grief, loss or a bereavement? I can help.

Can counselling for bereavement, grief and loss help me?

Grief counselling offers a safe, confidential space. You can express your thoughts and feelings without worry about judgment. It's alright not to be the 'strong' one, especially if others depend on you for that.
In counselling, you'll feel completely understood, a relief when friends, partners, or family members haven't experienced grief the way you have. 

What is bereavement, grief and loss is and where it comes from?

Bereavement, grief, and loss are interconnected emotional experiences that arise from the profound sense of sorrow and emptiness following the death of a loved one or a significant life change

Bereavement refers to the period of mourning and adjustment that follows such a loss. It is a natural response to the human condition and can be triggered by the death of a family member, friend, pet, or even the end of a significant relationship. Bereavement encompasses the entire process of coming to terms with the reality of the loss and adapting to life without the presence of the person or thing that is gone.

Grief is the emotional response to bereavement. It involves a range of feelings, including sadness, anger, confusion, guilt, and sometimes even relief, depending on the circumstances of the loss. Grief is a deeply personal experience, and the intensity and duration can vary widely from person to person.

Loss, in this context, is the event or situation that triggers bereavement and grief. Loss can take many forms beyond death, including divorce, job loss, the end of a significant friendship, or a major life transition like retirement. Each type of loss can elicit similar emotional responses, as individuals grapple with the changes and adjustments that come with it.

Grief and bereavement are universal human experiences, and they are influenced by various factors, including cultural norms, personal beliefs, and the nature of the relationship with the lost person or thing. While these emotions can be incredibly painful, they are also a testament to the depth of human connection and the capacity to love and care deeply. Over time, with support and coping strategies, individuals can find ways to navigate their grief and ultimately heal.

Take positive steps now to help control your grief, loss or bereavement.


Supportive relationships

Surrounding yourself with understanding and empathetic friends and family members can be immensely comforting. Sharing your feelings and memories with loved ones helps you process your grief and fosters a sense of connection..


Self-Care and Physical Health

Prioritising self-care is crucial. Engage in regular exercise, maintain a balanced diet, and get enough sleep. Physical well-being can have a significant impact on emotional resilience during grieving.


Creative Outlets and Rituals

Engaging in creative activities such as writing, painting, or crafting can help channel and express emotions. Establishing rituals, like lighting a candle in memory or creating a memory scrapbook, can provide a sense of continuity and connection with the lost loved one.


Seeking Professional Help

Grief counselling or therapy with a trained mental health professional like myself can provide valuable guidance and tools to navigate the grieving process. I can offer you a safe space for expression and teach you coping strategies to manage the pain.

Begin addressing your feelings with grief, loss and bereavement counselling today.

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